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NOTE: As my children are launching from the nest, I am spending less time on my parenting ministry and more time in my law practice. I will maintain this website and I hope you find some of the resources here helpful! But I will not be adding new content, and I have removed subscription forms. I am no longer podcasting or producing “The Anchor and Maze” newsletter.
Healthy Optimism v. Toxic Positivity
When does “positivity” become toxic? How can Catholic Christians face the truth of their emotions and circumstances without becoming stuck in them?
Navigating Sibling Conflict (Ep. 31)
Sibling conflict is probably inevitable, but it doesn’t have to be destructive. In fact, our kids can learn conflict management skills that help them protect their own dignity and their relationships. Important questions I address: What is a parent’s role in their kids’ conflict, and how can our faith help our kids see their siblings and their conflicts more clearly?
The Problem with Substitute Attachments (Ep. 30)
Substitute or transferred attachment happen when kids look to peers or even objects to meet their emotional needs. Why is this a problem, and do you really need to worry about it?
Helping Kids Face Losses and Setbacks
In the last few years, many of our children have encountered setbacks and losses that couldn’t be fixed, and they had to face futility, disappointment, and sadness. Fortunately, when sensitive parents help them through these experiences, they become more resilient and wise.
Is Your Child Too Anxious? (Ep. 29)
All kids are fearful sometimes, but how do we tell when normal childhood fears cross over into something that should concern us? In this show, Kim breaks down common childhood fears by age group, then she explains the signs of maladaptive anxiety.
The Virtue of Courtesy
With Thanksgiving (and Advent!) approaching, now is a great time to review the virtue of courtesy with our children. Even small children can learn basic etiquette, including greetings and table manners.